Women say that men should share their issues/concerns/feelings with them and that enhances the experience of the relationship. I can't say that's true in my life or with the women I've had relationships with. If anything, sharing diminishes the experience of the relationship because it always ends up doing what she wants or her way.
Not even our way or half our way.
But, then again, that is how men and women are often different. She views a relationship as an augmentation of her life, if not completing it, making it whole. He views it as a diminution, a lessening, upon one road with others not traveled.
About the only thing I miss from not having a woman around (well, positive things, I don't miss the negative things at all... God I don't miss the nagging and the manipulation) is sharing successes, and perhaps a few minor failures. Only a fool discusses major failures with a woman because she will indeed use that for ammunition some day.
Thus, if men abuse physically (which is yet to proven as a widespread thing as feminists so often want everybody to believe), women abuse just as bad - but emotionally, and when she's angry and fighting she will reach in her elephantine memory and remind you of your significant failings...or hit you upside the head with a wine glass...I think a prominent movie star got that from some broad...or worse - seeing that women are now also shooting their husbands and such.
Hence, being open and honest with a woman is like going out in the sun, not only without sunscreen - but fully naked. You're asking to get burned somewhere.
¶ 7:22 AM
The baby, named Zack by nurses at the Liverpool Women's Hospital where he is being cared for, is in a healthy condition according to hospital authorities however Lydia Moore, head of midwifery at the hospital said there were concerns for the baby's mother. "Zack is doing very well," she said. "He is in good condition and is feeding well but we are concerned about Zack's mum. She has given birth on her own with no medical assistance."
"She needs to get some attention from a doctor or a midwife. We have no idea what kind of delivery it was."
"Medical staff at the hospital believe the baby is just hours old but we want to find mum so that we can check on her welfare and make sure she is OK," he said.
How about a concern for this mother delivered with a biatch slap.
Jordon Lyon, 10, drowned on May 3 trying to help his stepsister Bethany Ganderton, eight, after they both got into difficulties.
Last week's inquest into his death in Wigan, Lancashire, heard that two police community support officers (PCSOs), who arrived before the police, made no attempt to rescue him and just stood by watching the incident.
Mr Ganderton said yesterday: "When we got there the PCSOs were just stood there watching.I don't know why they didn't go in. I can't understand it. If I had been walking along a canal and seen a child drowning I would have jumped in." Detective Chief Inspector Philip Owen, of Wigan police, who led the inquiry into Jordon's death, told the inquest that support officers "are not trained to the same extent as police officers so wouldn't have been taught how to deal with a situation like this". The United Kingdom has gone from the ridiculous to the absurd, and expatriation is required for any man living there.
¶ 7:49 AM
Monday, September 17, 2007
Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
For tens of thousands of years woman has sought out Bad Boy to father her children and Nice Guy to raise them. It is simply part of her genetic make up, which expresses itself more in some women and less in others, but it is there.
Today, the modern woman does not have to scramble to get Bad Boy to sire her kids. Nor does she have to play along Nice Guy to use his resources to raise them after Bad Boy has fled the bed. This is because government provides both to the modern woman - the Bad Boy by removing the father from the family (the wild and barbarian Ameritrash we see stalking our streets in Anytown, USA) and the resources from taxing Nice Guy (the blind and zombie like men we see everyday working as gears in the machine) to support her.
Even if this is not so, and the modern woman is independent from any government subsidies (very rare, since women are supported from cradled to grave in our matriarchy), those drives would still be there and influence her behavior. This is why we see female lawyers having sex with their criminal clients, female psychologists having sex with their anger management clients, and so on. Her DNA wants the best in the survival of the fittest.
Thus, that is why she finds a man exciting when he acts like Bad Boy and why she walks when he acts like Nice Guy. Thus, to keep her, a man has to be both. Bad at the right time, and Nice at the right time. Bad to attract and hook her, Nice to convince her and keep her. It ain't easy, but what the heck, it's what us guys have to do to get three hots and a cot - well, maybe not...I digress...however, there is a lot of good science and research to back this up.
An alternative point of view is supplied by the editor of this blog, he simply does his thing in life, and lets the chips fall where they may with women (I can't say that I have ever seen his way not work) - by having an overriding vision in your life, a grand strategy to say, this automatically shatters a woman's worldview that she is the center of a man's purpose in life, the goal, the prize to be won, etc., which automatically makes a man the Bad Boy in her eyes.
¶ 7:50 AM
Friday, September 7, 2007
Our Guest Connaisseur writes: Most of the American men I meet in their 30s are content with their choices, know who they are, and where they are going. As the old saying goes, they are comfortable in their skin.
Most of the American women I meet in their 30s are nasty, angry, fighting with themselves over being a woman or having a career, and stressed out over trying to do both.
In that there is great irony, which points to a deeper issue. For most of human history woman has not had to go through a gauntlet for her psychological identity. She was woman and no transition was needed except from girl to woman and even that was taken care of by nature with her first menstrual cycle.
Males had the psychological journey to make, and they still have to do so, reject the feminine, adopt the masculine and find a place in society while quite young. Said another way, males make the journey whether they like it or not -- and I suspect a bad detour on the journey is homosexuality.
Women in their 30s today have been forced by society to take the male route. They are not psychologically women in the classical sense. Now, boys hit that critical psychological identity stage before 10, today's woman is hitting it in her 30s...not only a different roll, but at a difficult time and without the emotional envelope of the progenating family around her.
Thus the irony is woman in imitating man (and despite a confusion of terms that is what the feminist movement is all about-- rejection of the maternal and adopting the paternal) woman is becoming lost with no shaman (sha-woman so to speak) to show the way off the two-edged sword. I think we are beginning to see the start of a large, painful social issue.
There is perhaps no woman on earth more separated from her womb than an American woman, and there is no woman on earth pursuing masculinity more than she. She now values working like a man over nurturing like a woman ... she has reduce her unique contribution to humanity to disposable bits of unwanted indiscretions. Add to that the feminizing of men and societies that don't allow those two things will conquer the US, one way or another.
¶ 7:14 AM
The Bright Mirror reflecting masculinity for men. Saving your ass from the Matriarchy whether you like it or not. Shattering delusions so reality is clearly seen. You are ready, and the master has appeared.