You should expat for other reasons besides finding a woman - better lifestyle, better rights for men, better standard of living, better quality of life, better opportunities to use your skills and such. But expat to just find a woman without any of the above to add to it? Never. Never for me at least. I travel frequently, and probably without wireless internet access - this blog would be seriously absent of posts. I was over in Greece again, and I heard one of the best quotes in a long time - "You live where you make your money at". Simple and true. Sometimes this fact eludes men, especially those wanting to expat just for a woman.
Perspective 60Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
Since woman is the one who wants kids in the house AND a career outside the house, let HER figure out how to do both. What frosts my assets is every time the modern woman gets in a bind for her INDEPENDENT AND LIBERATED decisions - she wants a man to rescue her. So much for being independent, liberated, and having no need for men.
Perspective 59Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
I was a journalist on newspapers for many years. I never met a journalist who intentionally lied. But, they are now severely liberal and that does skew their reporting.
I was also an assignment editor for a TV station. If I distrust any media it is TV. They have very low standards, and worse, TV "reporters" are empty-head twinkies. I used to have to write all the questions for them to ask because they were air-headed pieces of plastic that haven't a clue. One needs a brain to work for a newspaper, all one need for TV is looks.
One time a local TV station sent a crew out to report on balancing an egg on the equinox, which of course, is pathetic nonsense. So I wrote to the station manager chiding him for making a news story out of fiction. (The crew treated as fact that one could, and the reason was that all the forces in the universe were in balance on the equinox.) He wrote back and said there is no such thing as a fact, and he was just giving his viewers what they wanted.... Lord save us from TV....
I think I have mentioned this before about this amazing supplement called Russian Choice Immune, which boosts your natural immune system to fight off viruses and other infections. It was created as a direct result of the Chernobyl accident over there in Russia to provide a low cost, yet effective treatment for the victims.
Here is the website for the supplement : http://www.allergyresearchgroup.com/
I used to get the flu every year, and after taking this on a regular basis, I have never had the flu since. Also, I feel ten times better than I ever did.
As always, talk with your preventive medicine professional (i.e. chiropractor, etc.) to make sure this is for you. Most of your run-of-mill MD's have no clue about this stuff, and just function as legalized drug dealers for the big pharmaceutical industries, that never wish to solve the root cause of diseases, but only treat symptoms, so that you are always depended on their drugs.
Another amazing alternative medicine thing I found was the Pettibon System for spinal and posture correction. In my opinion, physicians are way too eager to prescribe surgery for back or spinal problems (usually because their buddy is doing the surgery and both win at your expense). Through a series of exercises you actually re-hydrate your spine (actually your spinal disks) via increasing the flow of spinal fluid in your vertebrae. You will grow taller too. The Pettibon System is a complete system designed to restore your whole spine, posture, and back to its normal, natural state, and strengthen it at the same time.
Here is the link for that: http://www.pettibonsystem.com/index.php
With most of the "established" medical community being highly feminized and neglecting men's health needs, I have found that alternative medicines and their associated professionals, i.e., chiropractors, are making significant advancements in alternative medicine that can greatly benefit men.
Perspective 58Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
While I now make an enviable salary, most of my life I was in the arts and "starving" and what I owned would fit in the back seat of a car. I had at least three women in the past say they liked me but not my low income. One said I didn't make enough "discretionary cash." Another said since my salary was not equal hers, hence no permanent relationship was possible. And a third simply would not settle for less than a millionaire, though she had little to offer for that financial demand.
I did have a well-to-do girlfriend who was frugal and a tightwad. I am not a spend thrift by any means but her obsession with money was a constant issue between us. That's not quite accurate: Everything she did was related to money, and very little of what I do is related to money, so we were always at odds on that. And if she could cut a corner she did. An example. I am an outstanding cook, so she would invite anywhere from two to 20 to my house for dinner or a party, but she should never pick up the tab. So I bought the food and I did the work... and she never helped wash a dish. Needless to say, we are not an item any more.
Through The Looking Glass
If you are in your 30s, like me, you most likely have seen your friends and relatives (male or female) get married and such. You have probably also seen them get divorced too. You have probably also seen some of the women you knew as friends, former girlfriends, or what not, in your younger years - say your 20s, end up as miserable career chicks with their cats, complaining to you why finding "stability and kids" or a "good man" is so hard for them to obtain, after they have lived with quite a few different men during their 20s to find "Mr. Right" and "test drive" long term compatibility, yet have it go so horribly wrong for them. You might even be married yourself and wondering if marriage and such a life that was propagated to you - however it was - is all that it is cracked up to be. You also might be wondering if what has transpired in your friends and relatives' lives, i.e., seeing your male friends or relatives become pussy-whipped who once were strong and vibrant, witnessing your male friends or relatives become total wage-slaves in the matriarchal system via divorce, etc. - if this will also occur in your life. I can't say it won't, and there is 50/50 chance on average it will, but hey, everybody gets lucky sometimes - it might be your day. However, if you are a single man like me, you are in a unique position. You have actually gone through the looking glass and by-passed the whole matriarchal system and marriage/divorce industry here in the West, and are now standing on the other side of the mirror watching from a different perspective or experiencing life in a much different way than your friends and relatives are or have been. There is a reason why you are where you are as a single man - whether by luck, planning, divine intervention, or a combination of all, you can see clearly the true picture of relationships these days in the West and how it is one emasculating disaster for men - and can now decide and make a fully informed decision on your future, which leaves you with two options - to stay single here in the West or settle down somewhere else overseas - but whatever you do, you know that going back through the looking glass you will never see things the same again. Even though things might be changing for men incrementally with recent law suits to raise attention and bring awareness to men's rights, it is still a very anti-male West. If you do not see things any differently, then it has happened to you according to the true proverb: "A dog returns to his own vomit", and, "a sow, having washed, to her wallowing in the mire." You will have no one to blame but your own foolishness.
Perspective 57Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
I've said before, I do not know a happily married man. I am sure there are some, I just don't know any. On this note, I think a lot of couples can't stand each other, but stay together "for the sake of the kids." In practical terms, for MOST people, it seems like marrying someone is about the nastiest legal thing you can do to someone, other than divorce, a related nastiness.
So, a thought tongue in cheek, if marrying someone you love usually ends up in misery and hurting yourself, then maybe marrying the person you dislike either will 1) end up in love or 2) allow you to dump on the person you really do dislike.
Another solution is to charge $25,000 for a marriage license and $25 for divorces, there would be less marriages and less divorces.
There is a saying out there, "Women: you can't live with them or without them.
In actuality, you can live quite nicely without most of them. But a few of them make you ponder that folly.
Long ago, I had friends tell me to never get married and never buy a house with a pool. They were so very right about the pool. It is a major complication in my life and a money pit. If they were so very right about the pool, I can't but wonder about the rest.
Am I My Sister's Keeper?
Consider the amount of women with education these days and the associated university degrees available to them - B.S.'s, M.S.'s, J.D.'s, and Ph.d's. I am sure every man knows some type of woman with one of these degrees in her respective field of work or profession. I call these women "career chicks", others might call them "professional women", whatever the terminology, the end result is the same - sooner or later - they want a husband, kids, and a family. The question I ask, is "Am I my sister's keeper?" - meaning, should I bail out a woman that desperately wants a husband, family, and kids, that has realized she has totally screwed herself out of such in the pursuit of her career, and now, desperately hopes to obtain such? Some men say "Yes", and do such - but is this correct? Is this not furthering the mythology that "women can have it all"? - when we really know that these career chicks can only have it all, only when a man decides to sacrifice his pursuit of a younger, more fertile woman without such career oriented mentally to save a woman that decided to choose the career oriented mentality to "have it all". My answer is "No" to these career chicks, let them live with their cats, toiling away at their careers without any hope of rescue - I am not my sister's keeper in this regard - let them whine, moan, complain, and die forevering chanting the mantra of "men are to blame" and "no good men left". However, I am my sister's keeper in regard to choosing a young, fertile woman that has no career aspirations other than to be a good companion to me and mother to my kids, which, of course, is what all women want - it just seems the "less educated" women realize this more quickly than the "more educated" career chicks.
Perspective 56Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
An immature man will say what women want to hear in the hopes of currying their favor. A mature man does not. A mature man stating reality is not women bashing at all, but clearly tells women the truth of the situation of relationships these days.
1) The divorce rate is over 50 percent.
2) Men overwhelmingly bear the economic burden of divorce. That is the main reason, according to the National Marriage Council of Princeton, why less men are marrying now than ever before.
3) Women DO abuse men emotionally, and according to 14 studies also commit physical abuse equal to men.
4) Women almost always aim their snide remarks below the waist.
If commenting on reality is disquieting to women, then perhaps women should behave better.
And in passing, I have never heard a woman lament that her EX took her to the cleaners financially, or that she is being given the run around for visitation rights, or that she was falsely charged with child molesting just so he could get a bigger bargaining chip.
I'm tired of the constant view that women are sacrosanct victims. They are most definitely not.
Raid On Feminazi Bay
I have this one company as a customer (realize I am in heavy industry - as my restaurant owning surfer friend says "Dude, you actually do "man work", I don't know many dudes that do that anymore") - anyway - this customer - which I have denoted as Feminazi Bay- since it has a high concentration of women and pussy-whipped boys running it - fat women, fem-dykes, emasculated men, etc. - how we ended up supplying these freaks is beyond me. This customer totally pissed me off this week with some more stupid demands, and somehow I ended up as the only executive around, so as executive secession would have it, I took it upon myself to finally deal with these freaks. I cut them off, made them suffer supply shortages, shut down some of their production lines, and demanded full payment from their overdue account. The women executives running this company went crazy saying I could not cut them off and demand payment - Ha!, I just did sweethearts. They wanted to meet with me to fix this problem so I did, and I went Dark Side on these women - lightsaber and Force lightning, the whole Dark Side Arsenal - and said "I personally don't give a shit if you are our customer or not - you don't pay on time, your accounts are way past due, you file bullshit complaints, and now if you want product - you will pay on time, everytime, and pay your past due account within 24 hours, and knock off all the bullshit complaints, and get your shit together - or find a new supplier". Yeah, strong independent women my ass - most of them look as if they were going to cry and told their pussy whipped boys in the room to comply with all my demands. Stupid biatches. Obviously, acting in executive secession, I gave a report, and was praised for my actions. Hehe...I was but a learner, but now I am the master.
Perspective 55Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
The nature of knowing oneself is not "yesterday I didn't know but today I do." It is a continuous process, and if one waited until one really knew oneself only old folks might get married.
The difference between how one thinks between 25 and 45 is profound. I think that is why personality is the essential element in a mate. Everything else could and can change, personalities do not. The right personality and sex interest can weather most any change.